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Eben W. Pagan is better known by his pen name David DeAngelo. He was a student of Ross Jeffries and went by the name of 'Sisonpyh' in the PUA community (hypnosis spelled backwards). In 2004, he launched his first ebook 'Double Your Dating' that made a splash in the online channels of the dating scene. Unlike other PUAs, he marketed this as a ... David DeAngelo, author of 'Double Your Dating', is a leading advisor to men on the subjects of Dating and Attraction.An expert in psychology, communication, behavior, DeAngelo developed the concepts of 'Critical Moments' and 'Bridges' to teach men how to Approach Women, Create Attraction and Avoid Rejection.His live seminars and audio/video programs have helped thousands of men overcome their ... David Deangelo`s book is one that all wussy/”NICE” guys need to read, to get it through their heads that being “nice” is not the same as being attractive. A must-read for men. * by A Satisfied Customer. This book should be required reading for all men before they’re allowed to talk to women. The more I use the attitude and tips that ... David DeAngelo: Cocky Funny. David DeAngelo the PUA had entered the seduction community as a student of Jeffries, but he broke out on his own after Jeffries allegedly hypnotized and seduced DeAngelo’s girlfriend. DeAngelo developed and promoted a strategy called cocky funny, which was a hybrid of arrogance and humor. Eben W. Pagan, [1] born December 5, 1971, better known by his stage name David DeAngelo, is an American entrepreneur, author and dating consultant. He is a member of the Seduction community [ 2 ] [ 3 ] and founder of 'Double Your Dating', a company providing dating advice to men and marketed primarily over the Internet . Eben W. Pagan is better known by his pen name David DeAngelo. He was a student of Ross Jeffries and went by the name of “Sisonpyh” in the PUA community (hypnosis spelled backwards). In 2004, he launched his first ebook “Double Your Dating” that made a splash in the online channels of the dating scene.

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Shogun Tinder Strategy
text game secrets, text seduction formula
Seven Magic Words
Stoicism For Married Men.
Jewel Code Sequence
Shogun Method Concise Guide To Flirting
Gaming Celebrities
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fractination formula
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notes from field vol 1&2
Reseduction vol 2
Dark rake method
truth extractor
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online intrigue oings
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female sociopath
fractional action check list
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David DeAngelo Advanced Dating Techniques
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David Wygant Facebook: Friends To Lovers
David Snyder Rapid Attraction Secrets
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Greg Greenway Dating Solutions
Greg Greenway The 53 Laws Of Being A King With Women
Hypnotica Modern Day Sexual Man
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Mindvalley Evolution Of Health And Fitness Masterclass
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Occams Razor Ultimate Seduction System
PUA Training Inner Game Installed
Patrick James The Magnetic Personality Formula Re-Loaded
Ross Jeffries Stealth Persuasion Program
Ross Jeffries Persuasion in Action
Ross Jeffries New Code The Next Generation
Ross Jeffries Daygame Mastery and Mindset Monster
RSD Julien PIMP
RSD Julien Tengame
RSD Jeffy & Jeff Allen Execute The Program 2.
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RSD Max The Natural
RSD Max Girlfriend Game
Rsd Luke- Social Circle Blueprint Full
RSD Luke The Social Circle Blueprint 2.0
Rsd Madison Get Your 10
Rsd brad Evolution 2 Immersion
Rsd Tyler Hot Seat at home
RSD GLENN Energy Awareness Training (Level 1 & 2)
RSD TODD Attraction Unlocked
RSD Todd Valentine The System
Robbie Hemingway Text God VIP
Seduce With Silence By Manish Leone
Tom Torero Stealth Seduction
The Girlfriend Activation System V2
The Fearless Man Sex Signals
The Fearless Dating Course By Mark Manson
Thrive Daygame on Autopilot
Tantric Life Academy The Art of Tantric Massage
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Arash Dibazar Solomons Temple
Aaron Ward Instagram Masterminds..
Andrew Tate- Phd
Andrew Tate- how to get G
Andrew Tate- Hustler University
Bobby Rio Make Small Talk Sexy Conversation Escalation
Badboy The Instasex Method
Bobby Rio 31 Days to Better Game with Women
Brent Smith Your Perfect Girlfriend
Charisma School Sexual Magnetism
Captain Jack The Pickup Scientist
Crack the Girl Code
Carlos Xuma Sexual Spark System
Carlos Xuma The Girlfriend Training Program
Christien Bouc Grow On Instagram
Daniel Rose Sex God Method (Video course)
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Dan Kennedy The Ultimate No Bs Referral Machine
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Dan Kennedy & John Carlton Renedage Millionaire 2.0 Bonus DVD
Dan Kennedy -Sales Mastery Unleashed
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Dean Cortez Facebook Seduction System Platinum
Dean Cortez The Female Mind Control System
Dean Cortez Secrets of Dating Asian Women
David DeAngelo Advanced Dating Techniques
David Tian The Charisma Code
David Tian Invincible Hd
Day Game Domination
David Wygant Facebook: Friends To Lovers
David Snyder Rapid Attraction Secrets
David Snyder- Unlimited Lover
Engage by Evolutiondaily (2017)
Female Orgasm Blueprint
Fantasy Lover Formula
Greg Greenway Dating Solutions
Greg Greenway The 53 Laws Of Being A King With Women
Hypnotica Modern Day Sexual Man
Hunk Hands 6 Step Squirting
Instagrowth Formula 2019: Grow And Make Money On Instagram
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Jason Capital Advanced Body Language Seminar
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Mindvalley Lisa Nichols Speak and Inspire
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Occams Razor Ultimate Seduction System
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Patrick James The Magnetic Personality Formula Re-Loaded
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Ross Jeffries Daygame Mastery and Mindset Monster
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Arash Dibazar Solomons Temple
Aaron Ward Instagram Masterminds..
Andrew Tate- Phd
Andrew Tate- how to get G
Andrew Tate- Hustler University
Bobby Rio Make Small Talk Sexy Conversation Escalation
Badboy The Instasex Method
Bobby Rio 31 Days to Better Game with Women
Brent Smith Your Perfect Girlfriend
Charisma School Sexual Magnetism
Captain Jack The Pickup Scientist
Crack the Girl Code
Carlos Xuma Sexual Spark System
Carlos Xuma The Girlfriend Training Program
Christien Bouc Grow On Instagram
Daniel Rose Sex God Method (Video course)
Dan Lok Instagram Secret 2019
Dan Kennedy The Ultimate No Bs Referral Machine
Dan Lok Dan On Demand 2019
Dan Kennedy 12 Business Building Strategies
Dan Kennedy - Event Hacks
Dan Kennedy The Copywriting Clinic
Dan Kennedy 10x Personal Development
Dan Kennedy & John Carlton Renedage Millionaire 2.0 Bonus DVD
Dan Kennedy -Sales Mastery Unleashed
Dan Lok Instagram Secret 2019
Dean Cortez Facebook Seduction System Platinum
Dean Cortez The Female Mind Control System
Dean Cortez Secrets of Dating Asian Women
David DeAngelo Advanced Dating Techniques
David Tian The Charisma Code
David Tian Invincible Hd
Day Game Domination
David Wygant Facebook: Friends To Lovers
David Snyder Rapid Attraction Secrets
David Snyder- Unlimited Lover
Engage by Evolutiondaily (2017)
Female Orgasm Blueprint
Fantasy Lover Formula
Greg Greenway Dating Solutions
Greg Greenway The 53 Laws Of Being A King With Women
Hypnotica Modern Day Sexual Man
Hunk Hands 6 Step Squirting
Instagrowth Formula 2019: Grow And Make Money On Instagram
Instagram Domination 3.0 with Nathan Chan
Jason Capital Advanced Body Language Seminar
Jason Capital Social Media Boss 2020
Jason Capital 70 Laws
Jason Capital Power Speaker Academy 2020
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Jon Sinn Sexual Intelligence Training Program
Mark Cunningham Renegade Hypnotist Project
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Mindvalley Jeffrey Allen Unlocking Transcendence
MindValley- Vishen Lakhiani Consciousness Engineering
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Mindvalley Ben Greenfield The Longevity Blueprint
MindValley Emily Fletcher The M Word
MindValley 12 Dimensions of Mastery (LifeBook Challenge)
Mindvalley Evolution Of Health And Fitness Masterclass
Mindvalley- Vishen Lakhiani The 6 Phase Meditation
Millionaire Mafia Instagram Mastery (Platinum)
Occams Razor Ultimate Seduction System
PUA Training Inner Game Installed
Patrick James The Magnetic Personality Formula Re-Loaded
Ross Jeffries Stealth Persuasion Program
Ross Jeffries Persuasion in Action
Ross Jeffries New Code The Next Generation
Ross Jeffries Daygame Mastery and Mindset Monster
RSD Julien PIMP
RSD Julien Tengame
RSD Jeffy & Jeff Allen Execute The Program 2.
RSD Jeffy Resonator
RSD Max The Natural
RSD Max Girlfriend Game
Rsd Luke- Social Circle Blueprint Full
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Rsd Madison Get Your 10
Rsd brad Evolution 2 Immersion
Rsd Tyler Hot Seat at home
RSD GLENN Energy Awareness Training (Level 1 & 2)
RSD TODD Attraction Unlocked
RSD Todd Valentine The System
Robbie Hemingway Text God VIP
Seduce With Silence By Manish Leone
Tom Torero Stealth Seduction
The Girlfriend Activation System V2
The Fearless Man Sex Signals
The Fearless Dating Course By Mark Manson
Thrive Daygame on Autopilot
Tantric Life Academy The Art of Tantric Massage
Unlimited Abundance Christie Marie Sheldon
Valentino Kohen How to Meet and Attract Women
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2020.04.07 20:20 SnapSocialGuru Top PUA / Dating Resources during COVID19

EDIT: I've stopped updating this page. For a more up-to-date version, please visit: https://www.snapsocialguru.com/resources/
Hey everyone,
I know it's a tough time for everyone. Many of us are deeply isolated and bunkered down in our homes for several weeks at a time. I can't think of a time this has ever happened for society and we don't exactly know when we will return back to the real world. With that said, this also provides a really, really unique opportunity for those of us who are interested in self-development.
So what I've done is I've put together the top resources I’ve leveraged during my 11 years in the game. These resources have helped take me from “good” to “great”. I’ve used, tested, or tried every one of these resources. These are the “top of the top” in terms of quality, I've made my best to trim the fat and only put the absolute good stuff in here. Aside from my own website, I don’t officially endorse any of these resources nor receive a commission. This is just the stuff I believe is most valuable. Enjoy.

Top newsletter (written by yours truly)
Top Books:
Top Websites / Articles:
Top Videos / Channels:
These are the influences that completely changed my game, so let me know if you have any questions.
Cheers,
-Laz
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2020.01.30 17:15 xfiles_tr Do PUAs exit the game due to aging?

Neil Strauss said that "to win the game was to exit the game" david DeAngelo said that he moved away from pua after some time. Is it due to the fact that they get older and the number of available women decline (i.e most get married etc.)
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2020.01.29 22:48 xfiles_tr Do pua artists exit the game to the age?

Neil Strauss said that "to win the game was to exit the game" david DeAngelo said that he moved away from pua after some time. Is it due to the fact that they get older and the number of available women decline (i.e most get married etc.)
Edit: title should be: * due to the aging?
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2019.06.18 09:00 lonelyguy458 Why do people hate PUAs? Are PUA coaches like RSD real? And what should I do if this is all a lie?

I am 32 and I have known about the PUA community for over a decade. I remember getting emails from david de angelo back in the day. I've never made it work. I am a borderline incel (I don't hate women tho. I love them. I am just really insecure and unsuccessful).

When I go to normal people for advice they say the same things over and over that have never worked.
And none of this works. I get rejected. I get rejected a LOT. I get rejected by women that have made out with me. I get rejected by close friends. I get rejected by women that had huge crushes on me and then get to know me. And I think I understand the reason. I don't have confidence.

The problem that I continually explain to people is that my experiences of being rejected are where my insecurity comes from. I am too scared to approach confidently because i know how women have treated me in the past. Women that got to know me. When I talk to women. I have poor body language for the same reason. Most of the time I don't approach at all since i have seen so many women on social media telling me not to. Vehemently getting angry at me not to . I have been called mean cruel things because i entertained the idea of approaching a woman. Everyone funnels me to the above advice. Or worse. They say I am don't know what i want. That I should just go with the first woman that comes my way. Settle down. Get a big house. 30 year mortgage. And have kids. They say I am misttaken in my desires and i will be bored and unfulfilled. That I shouldn't even want to date at all and should do nothing. And it feels like it has all kept me stagnant and single for a decade. I don't even feel like a man anymore. I'm like. A pathetic broken shell.

And yet PUAs come here speaking to me. They have the solution. Just approach. Just go out get practice and practice and practice more. And this method makes so much sense and feels liberating that other things they suggest, like i will do better at my job, seem to make sense too. And they seem to understand. And that is the thing. I worry they understand too well . I do not know if i can believe it since it seems too easy to just tap into my male frustration .

Because what if the PUAs are wrong and the normies are right? Is there no way out. And yes I get it I am overthinking. But whatever. I want an answer.
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2019.02.04 07:11 LeoRedsun From hopeless to abundance: how pickup changed my life.

I remember that feeling of quiet, desperate loneliness as if it were yesterday. It truly felt unbearable. I remember countless nights of crying into my pillow, believing I would never know the touch of a woman, or the feeling of being loved by one. I was a 26 year-old virgin incel. I honestly felt like the ugliest, most unlovable man on the planet. I knew I didn't want to continue to live like that. But what could I do? I often considered suicide. I never had many advantages in the looks department; I'm a short man at 5'6" with a fairly average face and a jacked up body. The thing is I am actually physically deformed. I have a rare genetic disorder called H.M.E. which causes stunted growth in my limbs and my hands as well as malformed joints. I have small child-sized hands and shortened arms. It also causes me to walk with a bit of a pirate limp. For most of my life I hid my body as well as I could, I always wore long sleeve shirts, pants, and hid my hands in my pockets as often as I could. My disorder made me consider the possibility that maybe I am too genetically inferior to ever be sexually selected by any woman.I found pickup during it's rise in the 2007 era. I was desperate, yet humble enough to finally do some searching online. I figured I had nothing to lose anyway. I remember looking up "how to get a girlfriend" and found some David DeAngelo products, which opened me up to many other teachers, coaches and the pickup industry in general. I moved to a big city and joined the local PUA lair. I went to every free coaching event or talk that was available. I read every E-book and watched every DVD set I could get my hands on. I took more notes than I'd likely ever need. When I first went out, a lot of the top guys assumed I would quickly give up and that I was likely hopeless. I don't blame them. They saw how weird I looked, my terrible fashion and I simply really sucked with women. And as I later figured out, most men that start to learn game the way I did would give up in the first few months. It's a brutal and soul-shaking experience to go out to bars or malls and to get rejected over and over again, especially for a guy that was socially isolated for much of my life. But I didn't consider giving up to be an option. I thought this was my only chance. The feedback from going out was extremely important, even if it were difficult to suffer through. And finding a few guys in the lair that became my mentors was invaluable. And finding a few new friends that were also struggling and also trying to learn these same skills to group up with helped me stay disciplined in approaching and learning. I had some small successes in between a lot of failures. I even managed to lose my virginity and over the next 4 years and hundreds of approaches and days / nights of going out, I learned how to attract women, and more importantly I learned how to love myself and accept my own value. My self-esteem healed and my confidence grew. It's been 10 years now since I was that sad 26 year old virgin that hated himself and was scared of everything. I learned the value of pushing myself out of my comfort zone and many other lessons along the way. I've now slept with about 40 women, many of them were quite beautiful and sexy. That might not seem like a lot to some guys, but I never thought I'd have sex with even 1 woman in my life. I've had a lot of nights with an amazing woman by my side. I also had a 3 year healthy relationship where I got to experience love and companionship, and even though her and I are no longer a couple, we stayed great friends. She would still do anything for me, and I for her. I also live overseas and travel quite a bit now, which I definitely would have been too scared to do before. I have a great social circle here and a fulfilling dating life. Just this last month I had sex with a few young, beautiful women. I just want to thank the community as a whole. I love natural game and self-improvement. And I don't know where my life would be if I hadn't found pickup. Likely not as awesome as it turned out to be. I hope my story helps give some of you guys hope, because I know how it feels to struggle and want to give up. I wanted to quit almost every night I went out. Keep going. Keep going out and learning. It's worth it, trust me.If you have any questions, feel free to ask below. =)
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2019.01.29 10:33 LeoRedsun How learning pickup changed my life

I remember that feeling of quiet, desperate loneliness as if it were yesterday. It truly felt unbearable. I remember countless nights of crying into my pillow, believing I would never know the touch of a woman, or the feeling of being loved by one. I was a 26 year-old virgin incel. I honestly felt like the ugliest, most unlovable man on the planet. I knew I didn't want to continue to live like that. But what could I do? I often considered suicide. I never had many advantages in the looks department; I'm a short man at 5'6" with a fairly average face and a jacked up body. The thing is I am actually physically deformed. I have a rare genetic disorder called H.M.E. which causes stunted growth in my limbs and my hands as well as malformed joints. I have small child-sized hands and shortened arms. It also causes me to walk with a bit of a pirate limp. For most of my life I hid my body as well as I could, I always wore long sleeve shirts, pants, and hid my hands in my pockets as often as I could. My disorder made me consider the possibility that maybe I am too genetically inferior to ever be sexually selected by any woman. I found pickup during it's rise in the 2007 era. I was desperate, yet humble enough to finally do some searching online. I figured I had nothing to lose anyway. I remember looking up "how to get a girlfriend" and found some David DeAngelo products, which opened me up to many other teachers, coaches and the pickup industry in general. I moved to a big city and joined the local PUA lair. I went to every free coaching event or talk that was available. I read every E-book and watched every DVD set I could get my hands on. I took more notes than I'd likely ever need. When I first went out, a lot of the top guys assumed I would quickly give up and that I was likely hopeless. I don't blame them. They saw how weird I looked, my terrible fashion and I simply really sucked with women. And as I later figured out, most men that start to learn game the way I did would give up in the first few months. It's a brutal and soul-shaking experience to go out to bars or malls and to get rejected over and over again, especially for a guy that was socially isolated for much of my life. But I didn't consider giving up to be an option. I thought this was my only chance. The feedback from going out was extremely important, even if it were difficult to suffer through. And finding a few guys in the lair that became my mentors was invaluable. And finding a few new friends that were also struggling and also trying to learn these same skills to group up with helped keep me stay disciplined in approaching and learning. I had some small successes in between a lot of failures. I even managed to lose my virginity and over the next 4 years and hundreds of approaches and days / nights of going out, I learned how to attract women, and more importantly I learned how to love myself and accept my own value. My self-esteem healed and my confidence grew. It's been 10 years now since I was that sad 26 year old virgin that hated himself and was scared of everything. I learned the value of pushing myself out of my comfort zone and many other lessons along the way. I've now slept with about 40 women, many of them were quite beautiful and sexy. That might not seem like a lot to some guys, but I never thought I'd have sex with even 1 woman in my life. I've had a lot of nights with an amazing woman by my side. I also had a 3 year healthy relationship where I got to experience love and companionship, and even though her and I are no longer a couple, we stayed great friends. She would still do anything for me, and I for her. I also live overseas and travel quite a bit now, which I definitely would have been too scared to do before. I have a great social circle here and a fulfilling dating life. Just this last month I had sex with a few young, beautiful women. I just want to thank the community as a whole. I love natural game and self-improvement. And I don't know where my life would be if I hadn't found pickup. Likely not as awesome as it turned out to be.I hope my story helps give some of you guys hope, because I know how it feels to struggle and want to give up. I wanted to quit almost every night I went out. Keep going. Keep going out and learning. It's worth it, trust me. If you have any questions, feel free to ask below.
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2018.10.28 17:04 BaggyBulldogs 50 Playlists per Genre

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Hope you enjoy ☺Feel free to share your XXL playlists in the comments.
Name of the playlist → (Number of Songs) →
All 40's and 50's Music (158) < Anita 'O Day, Andrew Sisters, Bing Crosby, Billie Holiday, Bobby Darin, Bobby Day, The Coasters, Dean Martin, Dinah Washington, Dion and the Belmonts, Everly Brothers, Frank Sinatra, Glenn Miller, Jackie Wilson, The Monkees, Peggy Lee, The Platters >
All 60's Music (306) All 60's Music ♪ < The Animals, The Beach Boys, Beatles, Brenda Lee, Dean Martin, Del Shannon, Dionne Warwick, Etta James, Jackie Wilson, The Hollies, Jimi Hendrix, Lovin Spoonful, The Marcels,The Marbles, Mary Wells, Nina Simone, Righteous Brothers, The Shadows, The Young Rascals >
All 70's Music (387) < 10CC, Al Green, Al Stewart, Billy Withers, Captain & Tennille, The Cars, Chic, David Bowie, The Doors, Earth Wind and Fire, ELO, Gladys Knight and the Pips, Hot Chocolate, The Jacksons, James Brown, The Police, Queen, Rolling Stones, Supertramp >
All 80's Music (666)
All 90's Music (440) < 4 Non Blondes, Babyface, Bell Biv Devoe, Boyz II Men, Concrete Blonde, Crowded House, George Michael, INXS, Janet Jackson, Lenny Kravitz, Living Colour, Paul Weller, Sade, Seal, Simply Red, Snap, Soul II Soul >
Blues & Blues Rock (305)
Bulldog Music (113) < A Music Crazy and Weird Music compilation that describes the Bulldog in looks and character; Funny, Sexy, Lazy and Loveable >
Cabaret (811) < Dutch Cabaret en Comedy, Nederlands Cabaret ☺< Bert Visscher, Daniel Arends, Eric van Sauers, Hans Teeuwen, Harrie Jekkers, Javier Guzman, Najib Amhali, Theo Maassen, Vliegende Panters, Youp van 't Hek >
Dance (222) < Aami, Alex Claire, Architects, Armand van Helden, Avicii, Audio Bullys, Azealia Banks, Benny Benassi, Body Rockers, Calvin Harris, Caribou, Chemical Brothers, Daft Punk, David Guetta, Dirty Dog, DJ Snake, Groove Armada, Jason Derulo, Major Lazer, Modestep, Prodigy, Tiesto, WTF >
Dancehall, Bubblin and Reggaeton (349)
Dinner, a relaxing, jazzy, chilled out playlist for during dinner or a laid back afternoon (309) < Allison Cornell, Anita'O Day, April Stevens, BB King, Billie Holiday, Bonobo, Brenda Lee, Charlie Hunter, Clutchy Hopkins, Corrine Bailey Rae, De Phazz, Ella Fitzgerald >
Disco and Funk (205)
Funny Songs (103) <☺ A compilation of Weird Songs and Songs with Funny Lyrics ☺>
Hip Hop (687) < 2Pac, Angel Haze, Anderson Paak, A$AP, Big L, Busta Rhymes, Da Brat, Das EFX, Dillon Cooper, Dr Dre, Eminem, Foxy Brown, G-Eazy, Jedi Mind Tricks, Jeezy, Kendrick Lamar, Lost Boyz, Method Man, MJG, Nas, NF, Rakim, Snoop Dogg, Wu Tang Clan >
Hip Hop G Funk (346) < 2nd II None, 2Pac, 213, Above the Law, Ant Banks, B.G. Knocc Out, Big Mello, Bone Thugs and Harmony, C-bo, Coolio, Da Brat, DJ Quik, Dr Dre, Havoc & Prodeje, Ice Cube, Kokane, Kurupt, Luniz, MJG, N.W.A., Nate Dogg, Rappin' 4-Tay, Snoop Dogg, Spice1, Too $hort, TQ, Warren G >
Hip Hop & Dancehall Dutch (100) Dutch Hip Hop & Dancehall, Nederhop, Nederlandstalige Hip Hop
Hip Hop Harmony (1212) Chill and Slow tune Hip Hop Music < 2Pac, A Tribe Called Quest, Arrested Development, Biz Markie, Common, Bush Babees, De La Soul, G Eazy, Gang Starr, Guru, J Cole, Jurassic 5, Keith Murray, Luniz, Joey Bada$$, MJG, Nas. Notorious BIG, Nate Dog, The Roots, Snoop Dogg >
Jacksons (465) < Michael Jackson, The Jackson 5, The Jacksons, Janet Jackson, Jermaine Jackson >
Jazz Big Band (163) < Anita 'O Day, Billy Holiday, Bobby Darin, Dinah Washington, Etta James, Ella Fitzgerald, Frank Sinatra, Glenn Miller, Louis Armstrong, Paul Anka, Nat King Cole, Shirley Bassey, Tony Bennett >
Jazz Smooth (383)
Jazz Swing (113)
Ladies Night (34) Fun and Sexy Music to drink, talk and Dance 2

Latin (79) Latin & Tropical
Live Music (211) Live music of all genres
Lounge (320) Music to Chill out, Relax, and Lay Back ... All Lounge Music
Nederlandstalig (177)
Oh Oh Den Haag (49) Songs from and about The Hague, Liedjes uit en over Den Haag
Pop (839) < Amy Winehouse, Bonobo, Coldplay, Corinne Bailey Rae, Fatboy Slim, Fiona Apple, Franz Ferdinand, George Michael, Gorillaz, Hooverphonic, Lenny Kravitz, Massive Attack, Portishead, Robin Thicke, Seal, Sticky Fingers, Stromae, Tricky >
R&B (483) < 112, Aaliyah, Angie Stone, Brandy, Brian McKnight, Chris Brown, Donell Jones, Ginuwine, Guy, Jade, Jason Derulo, Jeremih, Lucy Pearl, Mary J Blige, Maxwell, Missy Elliott, Ne-Yo, Nicole, R. Kelly, SWV, T.I., TLC, the Weeknd >
R&B Slow Jams (692) < Aaliyah, Amp Fiddler, Angie Stone, Bilal, Corinne Bailey Rae, Drake, D'Angelo, Donell Jones, Dwele, Erykah Badu, India Arie, J. Cole, Khalid, Lucy Pearl, Maxwell, Musiq Soulchild, Ne-Yo, Nicole, Usher, The Weeknd >
Reggae (359) < 311, Alborosie, Alton Ellis, Barrington Levy, Black Uhuru, Bob Marley, Buju Banton, Cocoa Tea, Damian Marley, Gentleman, Jah Mason, Junior Kelly, Ky-mani Marley, Mikey Dread, Ninjaman, Peter Tosh, Postmen, Sugar Minott, Toots and the Maytals >
Reggae Festival Rotterdam (343)
Rock (128) < ACDC, Anberlin, Arcade Fire, Bad Religion, Buckcherry, Deftones, Disturbed, Foo Fighters, Godhead, Guano Apes, Halestorm, In this Moment, Korn, Live, My Darkest Days, Nirvana, Orgy, Puddle of Mudd, Queens of the Stone Age, The Used, Vex Red >
Rock and Load (891) < Alt J, The Animals, The Arcs, Arctic Monkeys, Babyshambles, Black Keys, Black Pistol Fire, Eels, Garbage, Hanni el Khatib, Kasabian, The Neighbourhood, Ok Go, Queens of the Stone Age, Spoon, Temples, The Strokes, The XX >
Rock Industrial (175) < 16 Volt, And One, Android Lust, Angel Spit, Curve, Deftones, Dive, Dope, Empty, Gravity Kills, How to Destroy Angels, Kasabian, KMFDM, Marilyn Manson, Ministry, Nine Inch Nails, Orgy, Panzer AG, Puscifer, Snog, The Unicorns, Tweaker >
Rock Rebel (377)
Rock Unplugged (55) Rock Unplugged and Live
Soul (537) < Al Green, Aretha Franklin, Bill Withers, Dionne Warwick, Etta James, Four Tops, Gladys Knight and the Pips, Isley Brothers, Jackie Wilson, James Brown, Marvin Gaye, Otis Redding, Supremes, Temptations, O'jays >
Soundtracks (267) Tv Themes, Cartoon, Game and Movie Soundtracks
Stand Up Comedy (7639) < Al Madrigal, Aziz Ansari, Bill Burr, Bill Engvall, Bill Hicks, Christopher Titus, Dave Chappelle, Eddie Izzard, Eddy Murphy, George Carlin, Jim Breuer, Jim David, Kevin Hart, Lee Evans, Mitch Hedberg, Richard Pryor, Russell Peters >
Summer (102) Summer tunes ♪ happy, chill, slow, laid back Summer Beats
VVV (122) Songs II F*ck II
Xmas (176) Xmas music, christmas songs, mostly classics.Tip: mix this playlist with my Dinner playlist for the perfect playlist for the holidays

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2018.10.28 03:24 BaggyBulldogs ♫ XXL Playlists per Genre, ENJOY! ♫

A collection of XXL playlists per genreAlways updating my music collection ♪
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Hope you enjoy ☺Feel free to share your XXL playlists in the comments.
Name of the playlist → (Number of Songs) →
All 40's and 50's Music (158) < Anita 'O Day, Andrew Sisters, Bing Crosby, Billie Holiday, Bobby Darin, Bobby Day, The Coasters, Dean Martin, Dinah Washington, Dion and the Belmonts, Everly Brothers, Frank Sinatra, Glenn Miller, Jackie Wilson, The Monkees, Peggy Lee, The Platters >
All 60's Music (306) All 60's Music ♪ < The Animals, The Beach Boys, Beatles, Brenda Lee, Dean Martin, Del Shannon, Dionne Warwick, Etta James, Jackie Wilson, The Hollies, Jimi Hendrix, Lovin Spoonful, The Marcels,The Marbles, Mary Wells, Nina Simone, Righteous Brothers, The Shadows, The Young Rascals >
All 70's Music (387) < 10CC, Al Green, Al Stewart, Billy Withers, Captain & Tennille, The Cars, Chic, David Bowie, The Doors, Earth Wind and Fire, ELO, Gladys Knight and the Pips, Hot Chocolate, The Jacksons, James Brown, The Police, Queen, Rolling Stones, Supertramp >
All 80's Music (666)
All 90's Music (440) < 4 Non Blondes, Babyface, Bell Biv Devoe, Boyz II Men, Concrete Blonde, Crowded House, George Michael, INXS, Janet Jackson, Lenny Kravitz, Living Colour, Paul Weller, Sade, Seal, Simply Red, Snap, Soul II Soul >
Blues & Blues Rock (305)
Bulldog Music (113) < A Music Crazy and Weird Music compilation that describes the Bulldog in looks and character; Funny, Sexy, Lazy and Loveable >
Cabaret (811) < Dutch Cabaret en Comedy, Nederlands Cabaret ☺< Bert Visscher, Daniel Arends, Eric van Sauers, Hans Teeuwen, Harrie Jekkers, Javier Guzman, Najib Amhali, Theo Maassen, Vliegende Panters, Youp van 't Hek >
Dance (222) < Aami, Alex Claire, Architects, Armand van Helden, Avicii, Audio Bullys, Azealia Banks, Benny Benassi, Body Rockers, Calvin Harris, Caribou, Chemical Brothers, Daft Punk, David Guetta, Dirty Dog, DJ Snake, Groove Armada, Jason Derulo, Major Lazer, Modestep, Prodigy, Tiesto, WTF >
Dancehall, Bubblin and Reggaeton (349)
Dinner, a relaxing, jazzy, chilled out playlist for during dinner or a laid back afternoon (309) < Allison Cornell, Anita'O Day, April Stevens, BB King, Billie Holiday, Bonobo, Brenda Lee, Charlie Hunter, Clutchy Hopkins, Corrine Bailey Rae, De Phazz, Ella Fitzgerald >
Disco and Funk (205)
Funny Songs (103) <☺ A compilation of Weird Songs and Songs with Funny Lyrics ☺>
Hip Hop (687) < 2Pac, Angel Haze, Anderson Paak, A$AP, Big L, Busta Rhymes, Da Brat, Das EFX, Dillon Cooper, Dr Dre, Eminem, Foxy Brown, G-Eazy, Jedi Mind Tricks, Jeezy, Kendrick Lamar, Lost Boyz, Method Man, MJG, Nas, NF, Rakim, Snoop Dogg, Wu Tang Clan >
Hip Hop G Funk (346) < 2nd II None, 2Pac, 213, Above the Law, Ant Banks, B.G. Knocc Out, Big Mello, Bone Thugs and Harmony, C-bo, Coolio, Da Brat, DJ Quik, Dr Dre, Havoc & Prodeje, Ice Cube, Kokane, Kurupt, Luniz, MJG, N.W.A., Nate Dogg, Rappin' 4-Tay, Snoop Dogg, Spice1, Too $hort, TQ, Warren G >
Hip Hop & Dancehall Dutch (100) Dutch Hip Hop & Dancehall, Nederhop, Nederlandstalige Hip Hop
Hip Hop Harmony (1212) Chill and Slow tune Hip Hop Music < 2Pac, A Tribe Called Quest, Arrested Development, Biz Markie, Common, Bush Babees, De La Soul, G Eazy, Gang Starr, Guru, J Cole, Jurassic 5, Keith Murray, Luniz, Joey Bada$$, MJG, Nas. Notorious BIG, Nate Dog, The Roots, Snoop Dogg >
Jacksons (465) < Michael Jackson, The Jackson 5, The Jacksons, Janet Jackson, Jermaine Jackson >
Jazz Big Band (163) < Anita 'O Day, Billy Holiday, Bobby Darin, Dinah Washington, Etta James, Ella Fitzgerald, Frank Sinatra, Glenn Miller, Louis Armstrong, Paul Anka, Nat King Cole, Shirley Bassey, Tony Bennett >
Jazz Smooth (383)
Jazz Swing (113)
Ladies Night (34) Fun and Sexy Music to drink, talk and Dance 2

Latin (79) Latin & Tropical
Live Music (211) Live music of all genres
Lounge (320) Music to Chill out, Relax, and Lay Back ... All Lounge Music
Nederlandstalig (177)
Oh Oh Den Haag (49) Songs from and about The Hague, Liedjes uit en over Den Haag
Pop (839) < Amy Winehouse, Bonobo, Coldplay, Corinne Bailey Rae, Fatboy Slim, Fiona Apple, Franz Ferdinand, George Michael, Gorillaz, Hooverphonic, Lenny Kravitz, Massive Attack, Portishead, Robin Thicke, Seal, Sticky Fingers, Stromae, Tricky >
R&B (483) < 112, Aaliyah, Angie Stone, Brandy, Brian McKnight, Chris Brown, Donell Jones, Ginuwine, Guy, Jade, Jason Derulo, Jeremih, Lucy Pearl, Mary J Blige, Maxwell, Missy Elliott, Ne-Yo, Nicole, R. Kelly, SWV, T.I., TLC, the Weeknd >
R&B Slow Jams (692) < Aaliyah, Amp Fiddler, Angie Stone, Bilal, Corinne Bailey Rae, Drake, D'Angelo, Donell Jones, Dwele, Erykah Badu, India Arie, J. Cole, Khalid, Lucy Pearl, Maxwell, Musiq Soulchild, Ne-Yo, Nicole, Usher, The Weeknd >
Reggae (359) < 311, Alborosie, Alton Ellis, Barrington Levy, Black Uhuru, Bob Marley, Buju Banton, Cocoa Tea, Damian Marley, Gentleman, Jah Mason, Junior Kelly, Ky-mani Marley, Mikey Dread, Ninjaman, Peter Tosh, Postmen, Sugar Minott, Toots and the Maytals >
Reggae Festival Rotterdam (343)
Rock (128) < ACDC, Anberlin, Arcade Fire, Bad Religion, Buckcherry, Deftones, Disturbed, Foo Fighters, Godhead, Guano Apes, Halestorm, In this Moment, Korn, Live, My Darkest Days, Nirvana, Orgy, Puddle of Mudd, Queens of the Stone Age, The Used, Vex Red >
Rock and Load (891) < Alt J, The Animals, The Arcs, Arctic Monkeys, Babyshambles, Black Keys, Black Pistol Fire, Eels, Garbage, Hanni el Khatib, Kasabian, The Neighbourhood, Ok Go, Queens of the Stone Age, Spoon, Temples, The Strokes, The XX >
Rock Industrial (175) < 16 Volt, And One, Android Lust, Angel Spit, Curve, Deftones, Dive, Dope, Empty, Gravity Kills, How to Destroy Angels, Kasabian, KMFDM, Marilyn Manson, Ministry, Nine Inch Nails, Orgy, Panzer AG, Puscifer, Snog, The Unicorns, Tweaker >
Rock Rebel (377)
Rock Unplugged (55) Rock Unplugged and Live
Soul (537) < Al Green, Aretha Franklin, Bill Withers, Dionne Warwick, Etta James, Four Tops, Gladys Knight and the Pips, Isley Brothers, Jackie Wilson, James Brown, Marvin Gaye, Otis Redding, Supremes, Temptations, O'jays >
Soundtracks (267) Tv Themes, Cartoon, Game and Movie Soundtracks
Stand Up Comedy (7639) < Al Madrigal, Aziz Ansari, Bill Burr, Bill Engvall, Bill Hicks, Christopher Titus, Dave Chappelle, Eddie Izzard, Eddy Murphy, George Carlin, Jim Breuer, Jim David, Kevin Hart, Lee Evans, Mitch Hedberg, Richard Pryor, Russell Peters >
Summer (102) Summer tunes ♪ happy, chill, slow, laid back Summer Beats
VVV (122) Songs II F*ck II
Xmas (176) Xmas music, christmas songs, mostly classics.Tip: mix this playlist with my Dinner playlist for the perfect playlist for the holidays

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2018.10.06 12:31 BaggyBulldogs XXL Playlists per Genre and Mood

XXL playlist per genre/mood, on average ± 250/1000 songs per playlist.Still moving my music collection to Spotify so lists will continuously grow. Enjoy and feel free to share your XL playlists in the comments.
All 40's and 50's Music : incl. Anita 'O Day, Andrew Sisters, Billie Holiday, Bobby Darin, The Coasters, Dinah Washington, Dion and the Belmonts, Everly Brothers, Frank Sinatra, Glenn Miller, Jackie Wilson, The Monkees, Peggy Lee, The Platters
All 60's Music : incl. The Animals, The Beach Boys, Beatles, Brenda Lee, Dean Martin, Del Shannon, Dionne Warwick, Etta James, Jackie Wilson, The Hollies, Jimi Hendrix, Lovin Spoonful, The Marcels,The Marbles, Mary Wells, Nina Simone, Righteous Brothers, The Shadows, The Young Rascals
All 70's Music : 10CC, Al Green, Al Stewart, Billy Withers, Captain & Tennille, The Cars, Chic, David Bowie, The Doors, Earth Wind and Fire, ELO, Gladys Knight and the Pips, Hot Chocolate, The Jacksons, James Brown, The Police, Queen, Rolling Stones, Supertramp
All 80's Music : A-ha, Billy Ocean, Boy George, Crowded House, Genesis, Gloria Estefan, INXS, Joe Cocker, The Cure, Duran Duran, Eurythmics, Level 42, Madonna, Prince, Queen, Sade, Talk Talk, Wham
All 90's Music : 4 Non Blondes, Boyz II Men, Concrete Blonde, George Michael, Living Colour, Sade, Seal,Simply Red, Soul II Soul
Blues : B.B. King, Beth Hart, Black Keys, Blackwater Fever, Buddy Guy, Chuck Berry, Dan Auerbach, Gary Clark Jr, Janis Joplin, John Lee Hooker, Patrick Sweany, Ray Charles, Vintage Trouble
Dance : Dance compilation
Dancehall, Reggaeton and Bubbling: Adje, Beenie Man, Charly Black, Chronixx, Collie Buddz, Cutty Ranks, Daddy Yankee, DJ Chuckie, Don Omar, J. Balvin, Konshens, Mavado, RDX, Vybz Kartel
Dinner : Chilled Out music for Dinner or a laid back afternoon, multiple genres: Blues, Soul, Jazz, Lounge, Pop, Big Band, Indie Rock
Disco and Funk : Barry White, Bee Gees, Boney M, Chic, Donna Summer, Diana Ross, Earth Wind and Fire, Jacksons, Kool and the Gang, KC and the Sunshine Band, Pointer sisters, Rick James, Village People
Funny Songs : A compilation of Weird Songs and Songs with Funny Lyrics ☺
Hip Hop : 2Pac, Angel Haze, Anderson Paak, A$AP, Big L, Busta Rhymes, Da Brat, Das EFX, Dillon Cooper, Dr Dre, Eminem, Foxy Brown, G-Eazy, Jedi Mind Tricks, Jeezy, Kendrick Lamar, Lost Boyz, Method Man, MJG, Nas, NF, Rakim, Snoop Dogg, Wu Tang Clan
Hip Hop G-funk : 2ndIInone, 2Pac, 213, Above the Law, Ant Banks, B.G. Knocc Out, Big Mello, Bone Thugs & Harmony, C-bo, Coolio, Da Brat, DJ Quik, Dr Dre, Havoc & Prodeje, Ice Cube, Kokane, Kurupt, Luniz, MJG, N.W.A., Nate Dogg, Rappin' 4-Tay, Snoop Dogg, Spice1, Too $hort, TQ, Warren G
Hip Hop Harmony : Chill and Slow tune Hip Hop Music: 2Pac, A Tribe Called Quest, Arrested Development, Biz Markie, Common, Bush Babees, De La Soul, G Eazy, Gang Starr, Guru, J Cole, Jurassic 5, Keith Murray, Luniz, Joey Bada$$, MJG, Nas. Notorious BIG, Nate Dog, The Roots, Snoop Dogg
Jacksons : Jackson Music Compilation ♪ incl. Michael Jackson, The Jackson 5, The Jacksons, Janet Jackson, Jermaine Jackson
Jazz Big Band : Anita 'O Day, Billy Holiday, Dinah Washington, Etta James, Frank Sinatra, Glenn Miller, Nat King Cole, Shirley Bassey, Tony Bennett
Jazz Smooth : Anita O' Day, Art Blakey, Ben Webster, Billie Holiday, Blossom Dearie, Charlie Hunter, Coleman Hawkins, Dave Brubeck, Diana Krall, Ella Fitzgerald, Fiona Apple, Johnny Hodges, Koop, Madeleine Peyroux, Marcus Miller, Nat King Cole, Nina Simone, Ronny Jordan, Sarah Vaughan
Jazz Swing : Andrew Sisters, Benny Goodman, Chubby Checker, Fats Domino, Glenn Miller, Jackie Wilson, Louis Jordan
Ladies Night : Ladies Night compilation
Latin & Tropical : Latin & tropical music
Live : Live music
Lol playlist : Songs to make you happy, dance and laugh
Lounge : Lounge, trip hop, chill out music
Nederlandse Hits (dutch music, nederlandstalige muziek)
Oh Oh Den Haag : Songs from and about The Hague (dutch)
Pop Music : Pop music from 2000's till now
R&B Dance : 112, Aaliyah, Angie Stone, Brandy, Brian McKnight, Chris Brown, Donell Jones, Ginuwine, Guy, Jade, Jason Derulo, Jeremih, Lucy Pearl, Mary J Blige, Maxwell, Missy Elliott, Ne-Yo, Nicole, R. Kelly, SWV, T.I., TLC, the Weeknd
R&B Slow Jams : Aaliyah, Amp Fiddler, Angie Stone, Bilal, Corinne Bailey Rae, Drake, D'Angelo, Donell Jones, Dwele, Erykah Badu, India Arie, J. Cole, Khalid, Lucy Pearl, Maxwell, Musiq Soulchild, Ne-Yo, Nicole, Usher, The Weeknd
Reggae Music : Bob Marley, Gentleman, Jah Mason, Junior Kelly, Ky-mani Marley, Postmen
Reggae Festival Rotterdam : Bangalijst SS,Black Uhuru, Chaka Demus and Pliers, Cocoa Tea, Collie Buddz, Dj Moortje en Mc Pester, F1rstman, Flaav, Ir-Sais, Jimmy Cliff, Jorge Manuel and the Delidel Touch, Kevin Lyttle, King Yellowman, La Rouge, Mr Vegas, Popcaan, Richie Spice, Tabanka, Th’Acquisition, Trafassi
Rock Music : ACDC, Arcade Fire, Buckcherry, Deftones, Disturbed, Foo Fighters, In this Moment, Nirvana,Puddle of Mudd, Vex Red
Rock and Load : Alt J, The Animals, The Arcs, Arctic Monkeys, Babyshambles, Black Keys, Black Pistol Fire, Eels, Garbage, Hanni el Khatib, Kasabian, The Neighbourhood, Ok Go, Queens of the Stone Age, Spoon, Temples, The Strokes, The XX
Rock Rebel : Band of Skulls, Black Keys, The Blue Van, The Breeders, The Hives, The Clash, The Exies, Face to Face, The Killers, The Kinks, The Kooks, Modest Mouse, Ok Go, Pixies, Ramones, The Strokes, The Vandals, The White Stripes
Rock Industrial : Android Lust, Angel Spit, Curve, Dope, Empty, KMFDM, Marilyn Manson, Ministry, Nine Inch Nails, Orgy, Panzer AG, Snog, Tweaker
Rock Unplugged : Acoustic and live Rock music
Soul Music : Al Green, Aretha Franklin, Bill Withers, Dionne Warwick, Etta James, Four Tops, Gladys Knight and the Pips, Isley Brothers, Jackie Wilson, James Brown, Marvin Gaye, Otis Redding, Supremes, Temptations, O'jays
Soundtracks : Tv Themes, Cartoon, Game and Movie Soundtracks
Stand Up Comedy : Al Madrigal, Aziz Ansari, Bill Burr, Bill Engvall, Bill Hicks, Christopher Titus, Dave Chappelle, Eddie Izzard, Eddy Murphy, George Carlin, Jim Breuer, Jim David, Kevin Hart, Lee Evans, Mitch Hedberg,Richard Pryor, Russell Peters
Summer : Summer tunes ♪ happy, chill, slow, laid back Summer Beats ☼
Xmas Music : Xmas music compilation mostly classics
XXX Music : Songs to f**k to
*Always open for suggestions, feel free to share your suggestions & playlists in the comments
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2018.09.07 16:19 BaggyBulldogs XXL Playlist on Spotify per genre

XL playlist per genre/mood, on average ± 250/1000 songs per playlist.Still moving my music collection to Spotify so lists will continuously grow. Enjoy and feel free to share your XL playlists in the comments.
All 40's and 50's Music : incl. Anita 'O Day, Andrew Sisters, Billie Holiday, Bobby Darin, The Coasters, Dinah Washington, Dion and the Belmonts, Everly Brothers, Frank Sinatra, Glenn Miller, Jackie Wilson, The Monkees, Peggy Lee, The Platters
All 60's Music : incl. The Animals, The Beach Boys, Beatles, Brenda Lee, Dean Martin, Del Shannon, Dionne Warwick, Etta James, Jackie Wilson, The Hollies, Jimi Hendrix, Lovin Spoonful, The Marcels,The Marbles, Mary Wells, Nina Simone, Righteous Brothers, The Shadows, The Young Rascals
All 70's Music : 10CC, Al Green, Al Stewart, Billy Withers, Captain & Tennille, The Cars, Chic, David Bowie, The Doors, Earth Wind and Fire, ELO, Gladys Knight and the Pips, Hot Chocolate, The Jacksons, James Brown, The Police, Queen, Rolling Stones, Supertramp
All 80's Music : A-ha, Billy Ocean, Boy George, Crowded House, Genesis, Gloria Estefan, INXS, Joe Cocker, The Cure, Duran Duran, Eurythmics, Level 42, Madonna, Prince, Queen, Sade, Talk Talk, Wham
All 90's Music : 4 Non Blondes, Boyz II Men, Concrete Blonde, George Michael, Living Colour, Sade, Seal,Simply Red, Soul II Soul
Blues : B.B. King, Beth Hart, Black Keys, Blackwater Fever, Buddy Guy, Chuck Berry, Dan Auerbach, Gary Clark Jr, Janis Joplin, John Lee Hooker, Patrick Sweany, Ray Charles, Vintage Trouble
Dance : Dance compilation
Dancehall, Reggaeton and Bubbling: Adje, Beenie Man, Charly Black, Chronixx, Collie Buddz, Cutty Ranks, Daddy Yankee, DJ Chuckie, Don Omar, J. Balvin, Konshens, Mavado, RDX, Vybz Kartel
Dinner : Chilled Out music for Dinner or a laid back afternoon, multiple genres: Blues, Soul, Jazz, Lounge, Pop, Big Band, Indie Rock
Disco and Funk : Barry White, Bee Gees, Boney M, Chic, Donna Summer, Diana Ross, Earth Wind and Fire, Jacksons, Kool and the Gang, KC and the Sunshine Band, Pointer sisters, Rick James, Village People
Funny Songs : A compilation of Weird Songs and Songs with Funny Lyrics ☺
Hip Hop : 2Pac, Angel Haze, Anderson Paak, A$AP, Big L, Busta Rhymes, Da Brat, Das EFX, Dillon Cooper, Dr Dre, Eminem, Foxy Brown, G-Eazy, Jedi Mind Tricks, Jeezy, Kendrick Lamar, Lost Boyz, Method Man, MJG, Nas, NF, Rakim, Snoop Dogg, Wu Tang Clan
Hip Hop G-funk : 2ndIInone, 2Pac, 213, Above the Law, Ant Banks, B.G. Knocc Out, Big Mello, Bone Thugs & Harmony, C-bo, Coolio, Da Brat, DJ Quik, Dr Dre, Havoc & Prodeje, Ice Cube, Kokane, Kurupt, Luniz, MJG, N.W.A., Nate Dogg, Rappin' 4-Tay, Snoop Dogg, Spice1, Too $hort, TQ, Warren G
Hip Hop Harmony : Chill and Slow tune Hip Hop Music: 2Pac, A Tribe Called Quest, Arrested Development, Biz Markie, Common, Bush Babees, De La Soul, G Eazy, Gang Starr, Guru, J Cole, Jurassic 5, Keith Murray, Luniz, Joey Bada$$, MJG, Nas. Notorious BIG, Nate Dog, The Roots, Snoop Dogg
Jacksons : Jackson Music Compilation ♪ incl. Michael Jackson, The Jackson 5, The Jacksons, Janet Jackson, Jermaine Jackson
Jazz Big Band : Anita 'O Day, Billy Holiday, Dinah Washington, Etta James, Frank Sinatra, Glenn Miller, Nat King Cole, Shirley Bassey, Tony Bennett
Jazz Smooth : Anita O' Day, Art Blakey, Ben Webster, Billie Holiday, Blossom Dearie, Charlie Hunter, Coleman Hawkins, Dave Brubeck, Diana Krall, Ella Fitzgerald, Fiona Apple, Johnny Hodges, Koop, Madeleine Peyroux, Marcus Miller, Nat King Cole, Nina Simone, Ronny Jordan, Sarah Vaughan
Jazz Swing : Andrew Sisters, Benny Goodman, Chubby Checker, Fats Domino, Glenn Miller, Jackie Wilson, Louis Jordan
Ladies Night : Ladies Night compilation
Latin & Tropical : Latin & tropical music
Live : Live music
Lol playlist : Songs to make you happy, dance and laugh
Lounge : Lounge, trip hop, chill out music
Nederlandse Hits (dutch music, nederlandstalige muziek)
Oh Oh Den Haag : Songs from and about The Hague (dutch)
Pop Music : Pop music from 2000's till now
R&B Dance : 112, Aaliyah, Angie Stone, Brandy, Brian McKnight, Chris Brown, Donell Jones, Ginuwine, Guy, Jade, Jason Derulo, Jeremih, Lucy Pearl, Mary J Blige, Maxwell, Missy Elliott, Ne-Yo, Nicole, R. Kelly, SWV, T.I., TLC, the Weeknd
R&B Slow Jams : Aaliyah, Amp Fiddler, Angie Stone, Bilal, Corinne Bailey Rae, Drake, D'Angelo, Donell Jones, Dwele, Erykah Badu, India Arie, J. Cole, Khalid, Lucy Pearl, Maxwell, Musiq Soulchild, Ne-Yo, Nicole, Usher, The Weeknd
Reggae Music : Bob Marley, Gentleman, Jah Mason, Junior Kelly, Ky-mani Marley, Postmen
Reggae Festival Rotterdam : Bangalijst SS,Black Uhuru, Chaka Demus and Pliers, Cocoa Tea, Collie Buddz, Dj Moortje en Mc Pester, F1rstman, Flaav, Ir-Sais, Jimmy Cliff, Jorge Manuel and the Delidel Touch, Kevin Lyttle, King Yellowman, La Rouge, Mr Vegas, Popcaan, Richie Spice, Tabanka, Th’Acquisition, Trafassi
Rock Music : ACDC, Arcade Fire, Buckcherry, Deftones, Disturbed, Foo Fighters, In this Moment, Nirvana,Puddle of Mudd, Vex Red
Rock and Load : Alt J, The Animals, The Arcs, Arctic Monkeys, Babyshambles, Black Keys, Black Pistol Fire, Eels, Garbage, Hanni el Khatib, Kasabian, The Neighbourhood, Ok Go, Queens of the Stone Age, Spoon, Temples, The Strokes, The XX
Rock Rebel : Band of Skulls, Black Keys, The Blue Van, The Breeders, The Hives, The Clash, The Exies, Face to Face, The Killers, The Kinks, The Kooks, Modest Mouse, Ok Go, Pixies, Ramones, The Strokes, The Vandals, The White Stripes
Rock Industrial : Android Lust, Angel Spit, Curve, Dope, Empty, KMFDM, Marilyn Manson, Ministry, Nine Inch Nails, Orgy, Panzer AG, Snog, Tweaker
Rock Unplugged : Acoustic and live Rock music
Soul Music : Al Green, Aretha Franklin, Bill Withers, Dionne Warwick, Etta James, Four Tops, Gladys Knight and the Pips, Isley Brothers, Jackie Wilson, James Brown, Marvin Gaye, Otis Redding, Supremes, Temptations, O'jays
Soundtracks : Tv Themes, Cartoon, Game and Movie Soundtracks
Stand Up Comedy : Al Madrigal, Aziz Ansari, Bill Burr, Bill Engvall, Bill Hicks, Christopher Titus, Dave Chappelle, Eddie Izzard, Eddy Murphy, George Carlin, Jim Breuer, Jim David, Kevin Hart, Lee Evans, Mitch Hedberg,Richard Pryor, Russell Peters
Summer : Summer tunes ♪ happy, chill, slow, laid back Summer Beats ☼
Xmas Music : Xmas music compilation mostly classics
XXX Music : Songs to f**k to
*Always open for suggestions, feel free to share your playlists in the comments ☺
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2018.08.11 11:30 BaggyBulldogs For the people who like XXL playlists per Genre

XL playlist per genre/mood, on average ± 250/1000 songs per playlist.Still moving my music collection to Spotify so lists will continuously grow. Enjoy and feel free to share your XL playlists in the comments.
All 40's and 50's Music : Anita 'O Day, Andrew Sisters, Billie Holiday, Bobby Darin, Dinah Washington, Dion and the Belmonts, Everly Brothers, Frank Sinatra, Glenn Miller, The Monkees, Peggy Lee, The Platters
All 60's Music : The Animals, The Beach Boys, Beatles, Del Shannon, Dionne Warwick, Etta James, Jackie Wilson, Lovin Spoonful, The Marbles, Mary Wells, Nina Simone, Righteous Brothers, The Shadows, The Young Rascals
All 70's Music : Billy Withers, The Doors, ELO, Hot Chocolate, Queen, Rolling Stones, Supertramp
All 80's Music : A-ha, Billy Ocean, Boy George, Crowded House, Genesis, Gloria Estefan, INXS, Joe Cocker, The Cure, Duran Duran, Eurythmics, Level 42, Madonna, Prince, Queen, Sade, Talk Talk, Wham
All 90's Music : 4 Non Blondes, Boyz II Men, Concrete Blonde, George Michael, Living Colour, Sade, Seal,Simply Red, Soul II Soul
Blues : B.B. King, Beth Hart, Black Keys, Blackwater Fever, Buddy Guy, Chuck Berry, Dan Auerbach, Gary Clark Jr, Janis Joplin, John Lee Hooker, Patrick Sweany, Ray Charles, Vintage Trouble
Dance : Dance compilation
Dancehall, Reggaeton and Bubbling: Adje, Beenie Man, Charly Black, Chronixx, Collie Buddz, Cutty Ranks, Daddy Yankee, DJ Chuckie, Don Omar, J. Balvin, Konshens, Mavado, RDX, Vybz Kartel
Disco and Funk : Barry White, Bee Gees, Boney M, Chic, Donna Summer, Diana Ross, Earth Wind and Fire, Jacksons, Kool and the Gang, KC and the Sunshine Band, Pointer sisters, Rick James, Village People
Funny Songs : A compilation of Weird Songs and Songs with Funny Lyrics ☺
Hip Hop : 2Pac, Angel Haze, Anderson Paak, A$AP, Big L, Busta Rhymes, Da Brat, Das EFX, Dillon Cooper, Dr Dre, Eminem, Foxy Brown, G-Eazy, Jedi Mind Tricks, Jeezy, Kendrick Lamar, Lost Boyz, Method Man, MJG, Nas, NF, Rakim, Snoop Dogg, Wu Tang Clan
Hip Hop G-funk : 2ndIInone, 2Pac, 213, Above the Law, Ant Banks, B.G. Knocc Out, Big Mello, Bone Thugs & Harmony, C-bo, Coolio, Da Brat, DJ Quik, Dr Dre, Havoc & Prodeje, Ice Cube, Kokane, Kurupt, Luniz, MJG, N.W.A., Nate Dogg, Rappin' 4-Tay, Snoop Dogg, Spice1, Too $hort, TQ, Warren G
Hip Hop Harmony : Chill and Slow tune Hip Hop Music: 2Pac, A Tribe Called Quest, Arrested Development, Biz Markie, Common, Bush Babees, De La Soul, G Eazy, Gang Starr, Guru, J Cole, Jurassic 5, Keith Murray, Luniz, Joey Bada$$, MJG, Nas. Notorious BIG, Nate Dog, The Roots, Snoop Dogg
Jacksons : Jackson Music Compilation ♪ incl. Michael Jackson, The Jackson 5, The Jacksons, Janet Jackson, Jermaine Jackson
Jazz Big Band : Anita 'O Day, Billy Holiday, Dinah Washington, Etta James, Frank Sinatra, Glenn Miller, Nat King Cole, Shirley Bassey, Tony Bennett
Jazz Smooth : Anita O' Day, Art Blakey, Ben Webster, Billie Holiday, Blossom Dearie, Charlie Hunter, Coleman Hawkins, Dave Brubeck, Diana Krall, Ella Fitzgerald, Fiona Apple, Johnny Hodges, Koop, Madeleine Peyroux, Marcus Miller, Nat King Cole, Nina Simone, Ronny Jordan, Sarah Vaughan
Jazz Swing : Andrew Sisters, Benny Goodman, Chubby Checker, Fats Domino, Glenn Miller, Jackie Wilson, Louis Jordan
Ladies Night : Ladies Night compilation
Latin & Tropical : Latin & tropical music
Live : Live music
Lol playlist : Songs to make you happy, dance and laugh
Lounge : Lounge, trip hop, chill out music
Nederlandse Hits (dutch music)
Oh Oh Den Haag : Songs from and about The Hague (dutch)
Pop Music : Pop music from 2000's till now
R&B Dance : 112, Aaliyah, Angie Stone, Brandy, Brian McKnight, Chris Brown, Donell Jones, Ginuwine, Guy, Jade, Jason Derulo, Jeremih, Lucy Pearl, Mary J Blige, Maxwell, Missy Elliott, Ne-Yo, Nicole, R. Kelly, SWV, T.I., TLC, the Weeknd
R&B Slow Jams : Aaliyah, Amp Fiddler, Angie Stone, Bilal, Corinne Bailey Rae, Drake, D'Angelo, Donell Jones, Dwele, Erykah Badu, India Arie, J. Cole, Khalid, Lucy Pearl, Maxwell, Musiq Soulchild, Ne-Yo, Nicole, Usher, The Weeknd
Reggae Music : Bob Marley, Gentleman, Jah Mason, Junior Kelly, Ky-mani Marley, Postmen
Reggae Festival Rotterdam : Bangalijst SS,Black Uhuru, Chaka Demus and Pliers, Cocoa Tea, Collie Buddz, Dj Moortje en Mc Pester, F1rstman, Flaav, Ir-Sais, Jimmy Cliff, Jorge Manuel and the Delidel Touch, Kevin Lyttle, King Yellowman, La Rouge, Mr Vegas, Popcaan, Richie Spice, Tabanka, Th’Acquisition, Trafassi
Rock Music : ACDC, Arcade Fire, Buckcherry, Deftones, Disturbed, Foo Fighters, In this Moment, Nirvana,Puddle of Mudd, Vex Red
Rock and Load : Alt J, The Animals, The Arcs, Arctic Monkeys, Babyshambles, Black Keys, Black Pistol Fire, Eels, Garbage, Hanni el Khatib, Kasabian, The Neighbourhood, Ok Go, Queens of the Stone Age, Spoon, Temples, The Strokes, The XX
Rock Rebel : Band of Skulls, Black Keys, The Blue Van, The Breeders, The Hives, The Clash, The Exies, Face to Face, The Killers, The Kinks, The Kooks, Modest Mouse, Ok Go, Pixies, Ramones, The Strokes, The Vandals, The White Stripes
Rock Industrial : Android Lust, Angel Spit, Curve, Dope, Empty, KMFDM, Marilyn Manson, Ministry, Nine Inch Nails, Orgy, Panzer AG, Snog, Tweaker
Rock Unplugged : Acoustic and live Rock music
Soul Music : Al Green, Aretha Franklin, Bill Withers, Dionne Warwick, Etta James, Four Tops, Gladys Knight and the Pips, Isley Brothers, Jackie Wilson, James Brown, Marvin Gaye, Otis Redding, Supremes, Temptations, O'jays
Soundtracks : Tv Themes, Cartoon, Game and Movie Soundtracks
Stand Up Comedy : Al Madrigal, Aziz Ansari, Bill Burr, Bill Engvall, Bill Hicks, Christopher Titus, Dave Chappelle, Eddie Izzard, Eddy Murphy, George Carlin, Jim Breuer, Jim David, Kevin Hart, Lee Evans, Mitch Hedberg,Richard Pryor, Russell Peters
Summer : Summer tunes ♪ happy, chill, slow, laid back Summer Beats ☼
Xmas Music : Xmas music compilation mostly classics
XXX Music : Songs to f**k to
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2018.03.04 22:19 SnapSocialGuru The simplest & easiest way to take a girl home. (Resources & social breakdowns included).

"A 'creep' is just a guy with no social intelligence who goes from 0 to 100 real quick. The most socially adept, confident guys understand they must apply the gas slowly for a smooth, natural interaction."

Did you read the quote above? No, really, did you?
Take a moment to think about it. Then read the sentence below.
Have you ever fucked shit up with a girl? Maybe you were too aggressive and wanted to prove to yourself that the PUA tactics you've been learning actually worked?
We've all been there. We've all made a fool of ourselves once or twice.
I saw one of my homies fuck shit up right in front of me.
Then I decided I didn't want him to be my wingman anymore. But that's just me. I'm picky.
So, what do you do when you're interested in a girl?
Really. Let's take a moment to think this all through for a second.
How do you express your interest in her without scaring her away or appearing "needy" or "creepy"?
Do you kinda just got for it and see what happens? Take a blind chance and hope for the best?
And if you do make a move, how do you know for sure that your advancements will be well received or reciprocated?
I'm willing to bet the $5 in my pocket that you don't know which specific social cues to look out for.
It's true. I got $5 on me right now and I'm down to bet you have zero idea if she sees you the same way you see her.
That's why you're afraid.
That's why you're afraid of being rejected.
That's why you're afraid of ruining the good impression you have if you advance too quickly.
I bet you're afraid of embarrassing yourself too.
You take a chance, make a brave move, and it's all for nothing. Because she didn't like you anyway.
So how do you get around this? How do you confidently make a move on a girl that will be well-received and reciprocated?
I'll tell you. In a second. After this frightening thought...

When you don't know how to make a move, multiple bad things can happen:

  1. You ruin the relationship entirely and completely push the other person away.
  2. You make the other person uncomfortable, you get rejected, and embarrass yourself.
  3. Lack of reciprocity. She's not into it like you are. You showed too much interest too soon. Way to fuck shit up, dude.
  4. You fuck up your reputation. People look at you weird because you're being aggressive and appear "thirsty", creepy, or weird.
Nice...
So, which of those would you rather have?
I pick none of the above.
How can we avoid the above...?
How can we make sure that our moves will not only be well-received... But also WELCOMED...?
It takes a socially acute guy to be able to pick up on the social cues.
One thing I learned from pickup artists is that they're incredibly socially smart.
They know if the girl is interested before they even make the move.
They pick up on little signals like a radio picks up on waves.
You don't have to be a bonafide pickup artist to reach the same levels of social intelligence.
You just have to be aware.
And by the end of this post, I'm certain you'll have reached new levels of social intelligence.
In other words, you'll be one sharp motherfucker. Guaranteed.

About me:

My name is Laz. I'm the author of TRGD. When it comes to the dating & social scene, I don't believe that constantly pushing your "comfort zone" is beneficial. In fact, it can be pretty demoralizing and emotionally dreadful. Instead, I believe in taking confident, calculated approaches. I want to be confident about everything I do. That includes making a move on a girl I'm interested in. In this post, I share how to confidently express your interest without assuming any risk. I also know where the best tacos and margaritas in San Francisco are. So if you're ever around, DM me (dead serious).
In my last major article, I shared the top 6 traits every guy must have to be considered “cool” or “attractive”.
(Highly recommend you read that post as a prerequisite to this one).
Today, I share how to flirt.
I share how to build “tension” and grow excitement with the girl you're chatting with.
I teach you how to test if a girl likes you (or if she is open to the idea of moving things forward with you).
And most importantly, I teach you how to take a girl home (if that's what you'd like).
By the end of this post, I promise you'll know how to confidently and smoothly make a move on the girl you like.
Your "advances" will not only be welcomed...but also extremely well received.
Knowing how to be likable will get you better dating results than 80% of the population.
However, being likable and knowing how to move things forward will make you different.
You'll be unique. You'll bring that "warm presence" into a room. You'll be the breath of "fresh air" that every girl wants.
*(As opposed to being just another thirsty, sweaty guy in the middle of a club who's only trying to "get it in"). *
In other words, you’re exceptional. This is because not a lot of guys (or women by the way) know how to casually express their interest in a person without scaring them away.
In the dating world, it’s important to know how to move things forward and “seal the deal” with the person you’ve got a connection with.

Before I teach you how to do the magic I'm about to teach you, let's get some logistical stuff out of the way...

First, you must read my previous post on how to be a guy that’s considered “cool” or “attractive”. It’s absolutely fundamental.
You cannot coerce anyone into hooking up with your or dating you if they don’t already like you. I’m not interested in the business of manipulation, aggressive tactics, or pulling through “last minute resistance”. When I’m with a girl, I want her to genuinely like me for me. And when she does, I want to know what to do with the situation. If you're on the same page, read on...
Second, these tips are for the early stages of attraction. (If you already are dating/hooking up with the girl, you don’t need this stuff.)
Third, the following advice I’m going to give you is meant to be done in an orderly manner. Like a ladder, you take each one of these “tactics” one step at a time. Each tactic builds upon the previous one. I’m not a guy who strongly believes in tactics as much as I believe in being a likable person. But sometimes, tactics will work. And they’ll work very effectively. Initially, the tactics I'm about to teach you might seem mechanical to you. However, over time, they’ll become very natural.
Lastly, I’ve converted this post into a PDF file that’s ready to print. I’d encourage you to take it to the club/baparty with you, and test everything out step by step.
I’d love to hear what your results were like, so please do report back (I’ve included my contact info in the PDF).
Remember, this post is like a ladder. The tactics are in this order for a specific reason. Do your best to stick to it when you try it.
Each step of The Pickup Ladder serves as a "green light". When you get the green light on step 1, move to step 2, etc.
By the end of this post, you'll how to "close". From beginning to end. Step by step. In a confident, smooth way. I've purposely kept each step of The Pickup Ladder brief and simple. This will minimize your analysis-paralysis while maximizing action and testing. Each step of The Pickup Ladder is a baby step - so easy anyone can do it.
This system is meant to help you get a girl from the beginning of the interaction -> close. It's the same system I use today with girls that I share chemistry with.
Let’s get started.

Step #1: Flirting, or nah?

How serious or non-serious is the person you're talking with? This is what you want to look out for in this step of The Pickup Ladder.
Is she teasing? “Negging” you back?
Is there back-and-forth banter present?
Are you laughing at each other's silly jokes?
That's what we'd like at this stage.
Here's a good example of back-and-forth flirting.
Yes, she's playing hard to get. But she's also engaging, smiling, laughing, and joking back.
"Yes, I'm a lawyer", she jokingly plays back.
Watch 0:19-1:23. I've marked the video for you already, just hit play.
If she's being lighthearted, laughing, asking you questions back, and answering questions in more than just one-word answers ... That's a good place to be.
If she's being completely cold, arrogant, and disengaged... probably not interested.
This is black and white in most cases. Hardly any grey areas here. It's either seriousness or non-seriousness.
If she is fairly positive, having fun, and engaged...then let’s move to the next step of the ladder.

Step #2: The Physical

How comfortable is someone when you touch them? This is what you want to look out for in this step of The Pickup Ladder.
The thing about physical touch or “kino” (as the pickup community likes to refer it as) is that it can be a small act.
This means you don't need to make a "big, brave move" in order to see if the person in front of you is receptive to you.
It can be something as small and simple as you lightly slapping her on the knee when she says something funny.
Is she okay when you stand close to her? Or does she back away?
Is she okay when you rub knees when you sit close to each other? Or does she scoot over to allow space?
Is she comfortable with a slightly longer hug? Or does she keep it brief?
Physical touch is an intimate thing. So, when you notice she’s okay with any physicality at all, it’s a good sign.
If she’s okay with any physical touch with you, you’re ready for the next step of the ladder.
By the way, this step will also make it clear who’s just being "friendly" versus who’s actually interested in you.
There's a lot of flirtatious and friendly people out there. But the moment you move to physicality (because it's more intimidate), they back away. Differentiate the flirtatious from the interested.

Step #3. The Push-Pull (flirting technique)

David DeAngelo was the first dating coach I started following. This was back in 2009-2010. So, roughly eight years ago.
One of the concepts I learned from David was, “two steps forward, one step back”. Today, this is mostly referred to as “push-pull” by the community. It means you flirt, you flirt... then you pull it back. Compliment, compliment... then tease. Show her you’re into her, show her you're into her... then act uninterested.
It’s meant to be fun. It’s meant to be silly. It’s meant to be coy. It’s one of the many ways of flirting.
It's also the most effective method of flirting because it can create intense amounts of "chemistry" and "sexual tension".
Here's my old mentor, Alex, sharing a great example of a "push-pull". They refer to it as a "take away" in the video, but it's the same thing. His explanation of what happened after he pulled away is great too! Listen from 11:24-12:20. I'd love to hear from Todd-Valentine since this is his video.
To effectively leverage this flirting technique, don't overthink it.
It's exactly what it sounds like: two steps forward, one step back.
Once you've "green-lighted" the two steps before this one, this advanced-level flirting technique can drastically pump things up.
It's not a technique I'd deploy right off the bat with someone who I'm unsure likes me. However, once I've gotten a few "green lights" and I know the person in front of me likes me, it's show time.
Lastly, this technique is a great way to reveal how much the girl really likes you when you walk away or pull back. It's a HUGE "screening" reveal. In fact, I'll use The Push-Pull as the final way to verify that the girl is 100% into me.
This is a huge step that you can't ignore because after this step is when we start pursuing and "showing our cards" (more on this later).
When you've got the green light -- and the girl is playing along and chasing you when you pull back -- it's time to move to the next steps (my favorite of them all).

Step #4 Confidently Compliment

Is she flirting? Check.
Is she okay with physical touch? Check.
Chasing me when I push/pull? Check.
At this point, you can show her YOUR interest, shamelessly. Because up until this point, we've just been validating the other person's interest in us.
Most guys will give huge compliments right off the bat. They'll use compliments as a way to grab the girl's attention. They'll come in too strongly without knowing how well the "move" will be received. Wrong wrong wrong. This is also an indicator of low social intelligence because a sharp guy would've been more strategic and less aimless. When you give off "low competence triggers", such as a lack of social intelligence, you instantly ruin your chances.
(Side note: that's something I learned outside of pickup and dating. It's something I learned doing 60-100 job interviews after college and not having a single clue why employers weren't hiring me despite my qualifications. It's because I was signaling a lot of low competency triggers such as lack of thoughtfulness and strategic thinking.)
But you, you're not like other guys. You're socially aware and highly competent. Now, that we've gotten all the necessary "green lights", the real fun can begin.
“By the way, I don’t mean to come off too strong, but you smell really good.”
“You’re super sexy. Maybe it’s the alcohol talking but I just wanted to say that.”
Whatever way you compliment, now is the time.
The compliments will be received very, very well.
When we've gotten all the "green lights", it wipes away all anxiety and unsureness. You become confident and sure of your every move. We know if make an advancement, it'll be welcomed by the other party.
That's never not an awesome feeling.

Step #5: Show the cards

Never show your cards too early.
Many guys will confuse authenticity and honesty for "good game". They'll say, "What, I'm just being honest! There's nothing wrong with that!"
Authenticity doesn't always = good game.
There’s a time to tell a girl you like her.
Too early and you ruin tension.
Too early and you risk coming off as creepy or weird because you misread the signals.
Perfect timing though? You’re a reward she fought for. In other words, you’re the prize and she just won it.
At this stage, anything goes. She likes you. You like her. You're welcome to express yourself as openly as you'd wish. This is the stage where I let your imagination run wild.
This is where you can go in for the kiss and it'll be welcomed. With enthusiasm.
This is where at the end of the night, you can simply suggest, "Wanna go back to my place?", and she'll say yes.
No excuses such as, "Wanna come to my place and see my collection of Pokemon cards?" are needed.
Because the right has been earned. She's into you. You're into her.
Only good things happen at this stage.

My Finishing Thoughts

This post is all about picking up on social cues. When you know which social cues to look out for (the ones mentioned above, specifically), you're much more confident about the advancements you make. This knowledge eliminates the worry of appearing creepy, weird, or thirsty. It also eliminates the worry that your advancements won't be reciprocated.
Every move you make should be well-received and welcomed. And when you pay attention to certain social cues, they will be.
I hope the steps above help you understand exactly how and when to move things forward with a girl.
For the record, both men AND women can use this “The Pickup Ladder”.
(I know more women have been lurking through this hood, so I wanted to write a post that would benefit both men and women).
And, if this all seems too prescriptive or mechanical...
...good.
I never want to leave anything to chance. I want to make sure I know exactly what I’m doing and why I’m doing it. I also want to accomplish everything I set out to do.
WARNING! This post doesn’t go into “timing”. With certain people, you might find yourself skipping a few steps because they’re more receptive to your advancements. With other people, you might find yourself having to be very, very patient. Every person is different and it’s your job as a socially intelligent person to read the vibe and act accordingly.
I’d also like to warn you about is to not fall under the Green Light Fallacy. Don’t think about this ladder as a “check mark”. It’s merely a guideline to follow. Like a hike, you can go off the path and still be OK. Every human interaction is unique and different. So don’t try to check each bookmark off. As long as you’re a decently cool person (which you should be if you’ve truly implemented everything in this post), you’ll get away with slip-ups and imperfection.
Lastly, the goal of The Pickup Ladder isn't to speed through it. This isn't a race. An old pickup mentor, Alex, used to say: "Time is your ally".
Younger me didn't recognize what the fuck he meant. I was eager, impatient, and just wanted to "laid" as quick as possible.
But what he meant was that in a night, you've got several hours before it all ends. So enjoy it. Going through The Pickup Ladder should be a fun ride, not a stressful rush hour.
Before you go, I encourage you to print The Pickup Ladder and take it with you to your next social outing. Dead serious. I know it's cheesy. But I'd love to hear how this worked for you.
I've converted The Pickup Ladder into a PDF that is easy to print. All you've got to do is click CTRL+P.
I hope this post helps!
If you've got any questions, I'll be answering them below.
-Laz
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2018.01.25 00:14 FriendlySkull Completely New To the Game

Temporary Average Chump here, which I plan on changing. let me start say when I was younger I would have considered myself a natural, I had plenty of fun and time with women. then at 17 I went into military life and it all seemed to go away, after I left I got in a really downward spiral.
I recently went back to college and have made new friends, met a girl got serious feelings for her, then got the whole "im not attracted to you that way" "lets be friends", completely broke me, I felt this was going somewhere. A friend from college showed me Matt Artisans pdf of 200 texts and told me to try a few, I did and she completely changed over a few days of snapchat messages, not dating yet tho. Like that im hooked to PUA both myself and my friend are both now dedicated to learning, watching hours of videos on YouTube and such. We are ready to go further with it, were we are at the moment there doesn't seem to be any bootcamps or grate amounts of PUA's and were broke students so that doesn't help.
can anyone give me a list for complete beginners to start on such as, iv wrote this one bellow from reading reviews of them. Yes we are practicing what were learning we just want the content to learn from. What Im looking for is something like this a list from start to finish that says start here that will give you the foundations and by the end with practicing what you learning should be mastering the game. If yall see something that is in the wrong position or something that should be added in a position post it. Im trying to build a study plan for us to work trough from basic known nothing of the game to Advanced 5 minute kiss close
  1. Matt Artisan - Langugage of Attractoion
  2. Mystery - Mystery Method
  3. Real Socail Dynamics - Foundations
  4. Love Systems - Magic Bullet
  5. Stylelife Academy - Master the Game
  6. Matt Artisan - Texting Game -> Turn on trough text
  7. David Wygant - Facebook Friends To lovers
  8. Real Socail Dynamics - Blueprint Decoded
  9. Entropy - Meeting Girls In College
  10. Yad Barre Daygame Blueprint
  11. Matt Artisan - Triggering Sex Chemistry
  12. David DAngelo - Body language
  13. Matt Artisan - Day Time Sudeuction
  14. Hypnotica - Deep Phone Seduciton
  15. Lance Mason - Deep Rapport
  16. Love Systems - Dating
  17. Love Systems - Relationship Management
  18. Real Socail Dynamics - Flawless Natural
  19. Matt Artisan - Academey Content
  20. David DeAngelo - Advanced Dating Techniques
  21. NEO - Secrets of Sexual mastery
  22. Sinn - Advanced Strategies for Sexual Comfort
  23. Ross Jeffreies - Speed Seduciton
  24. Ross Jeffreies - Advanced Speed Seduction
  25. Igor Ledochowski - Covert Trance Hypno
  26. Sinn - Inner Circle
  27. Vin Dicarlo Day game - Same Day lays
Paid or we can start saving
we both one day want to be pros at this and hope to be able to help others who are currently in our situation, like what we see on many forums.
Thanks all
Duke
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2018.01.18 22:46 shootermcgvn PUA Resources

I've started looking into PUA/seduction material again. (Didn't get a chance to fully study and practice during a relationship)
Since I'm getting back into "The Game," I was wondering what some good resources are. I also have some suggestions of my own, for anyone who is starting out with this kind of stuff.
Here's what I have in my collection and I recommend all of it.
"The Game" by Neil Strauss
"The Venusian Arts Handbook"
The Annihilation Method - Neil Strauss
Ross Jeffries seminars:
-I have a folder with most of his stuff. He's a bit of a creep but something about his methods are brilliant. The original pick up artist.
RealSocialDynamics seminars by "Tyler Durden"
"The Art of Seduction" by Robert Greene
"Approaching Women" - David DeAngelo
Mystery Method Video Archive
-Available on Youtube. Take notes. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RLaQtMUKwo4
Any other suggestions?
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2017.10.13 06:32 Merger-Arbitrage Discussion: How Good Is Your Crystal Ball? Predict The Future of the Manosphere/Pillsphere

The Manosphere has been around, even if in far smaller form, since the late 1990s. The PUA community grew rapidly in the mid 2000s thanks to the popular novel "The Game" by Neil Strauss, which also introduced yours truly to the Manosphere. Lots of names (PUAs or PUA companies) emerged to modest success: Mystery, RSD, Neil Strauss himself as "Style", David DeAngelo as well as a smorgasbord of other lesser-known shills.
A little over a decade later, most of the big names, save RSD, are effectively dead. The shills are still here, however. In fact.... anyone can be a PUA these days, although the money of the golden days clearly isn't there. See the humor link below for a laugh.
So, as far as the Manosphere (PUA, RP/TRP and MGTOW), as well as incel/whatevercel related communities are concerned, where do you see their future?
TRP/MGTOW/whatevercel never had the monetary incentive of PUA (save for some oddball TRP "endorsed posters") ... so do you see the communities eventually dying down? Growing larger?
One of your gurus... this kind gentleman doesn't even charge for advice:
"The gym is a great place to start. There's girls who want to sleep with me just because I have big muscles. Before people start arguing... does that turn some girls off? Sure. But I've got plenty of options without those girls. "
http://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/general-questions/has-anyone-gone-from-afc-really-good-through-game-vt202468.html
The author himself: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ELBsSz9mYp4
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2017.07.04 20:45 cockycomedy Online Game 101 - Books and Foundation Skills (1)

You are sitting there, thinking no woman will ever want you and that you will die alone, as a guy who really doesn't "get it". You are in a way, doing this to yourself. First stop blaming all other factors but yourself; being good with women is entirely in your hands and it is never too late.
The difference between you and the guys who are successful with women; is that we turned on "a switch" inside our minds and started doing something differently. You can do it too. You don't need money, looks, height, fame, magic potions or luck (ok, maybe a little luck, but you will brute force that part by approaching a lot of women anyway..). You just need time, need to get out of your bedroom and do what I tell you to.
Here is a list of books I have read and applied, in the order I have read them over one year. I have done my first approaches a few hours after I have read the first book overnight. I was at a sort of "accomplish this or life's not worth living" state of mind, so I gave it my all, and approached the topic with an entirely empty mind and no biases at all. I got laid the day after (by simply talking to a cute blonde and leading her but nothing else) SHE HAD A BOYFRIEND AT THAT TIME. If you follow this guide, you will stop being a boy and be on your way to becoming a MAN over the course of a year or half.
Warning: There may be other, better, groundbreaking books, but I haven't read them so I can't comment positively or negatively about them. But it's easy to see who "gets it" and who is still an "average frustrated chump" by reading what they have to say about this topic. Chances are the book you're reading is not bad. The foundation of this area is the same, and has been the same for 2 million years. Two books or two different pick up artists may suggest conflicting ways of meeting women. That's okay, this is not a natural science branch. They both work in practice. Logic does not. Attraction is the opposite of logic. Attraction isn’t a choice; it’s an evolutionary mechanism that takes over our mind and body long enough to make sure we mate with someone with the best possible genes. As someone once said "The heart has its reasons of which reason knows nothing".
Don't try to read everything in order to feel "ready" before going out. Read a chapter and go out to talk to strangers, come back and read another chapter. That is the only way these will work.The game is 1% books and 99% approaches. Reading 100 books and not doing one approach will just make you a very knowledgeable attraction nerd, just like reading all rocket science books doesn't make you a rocket scientist, but a rocket science nerd. You have to "apply" what you learn. Asking the time to 100 girls is okay, it's better than sitting in your room playing Overwatch, and masturbating to internet porn.
Don't believe every advice you see on the internet either; a wise man on this subreddit once said "There is a very distinct difference between how a man who is getting laid talks, and how a man who isn't talks." We get it when someone is actually approaching and picking up women. Guys who are not good women are more judgmental of women, ex's, other guys and constantly belittle others and try to start up fights, arguments or use slang when their positions are challenged.
None of the books or guides below work, unless you put them to use and start approaching multiple women everyday
Book and Author Description
All About Women - Giuseppe Notte This book is helpful in reprogramming your opinions and values about men, women, what we want and what they want. Don't count on it for techniques though. Use for day game.
Double Your Dating - David DeAngelo David DeAngelo's phenomenal book and viewpoint helps reprogram your values about attraction, and guides you in the right way to develop a cocky and funny personality that attracts women without having the good looks that you thought was required. This works in both day game, and bar game, additionally on the internet. Also his longer and more comprehensive book: "Attraction Isn't A Choice"
Attraction Isn't A Choice - David DeAngelo Much more comprehensive version of "Double Your Dating" which is more of a kick-start book for your new life as a real man who knows what he wants and isn't afraid to get it, while having fun practising comedy. It goes in detail about Attraction, Dating, Evolution, Male Psychology, Female Psychology, Physiology. Read this only after you have read "Double Your Dating" and gained some kind of success using Cocky Comedy.
Models - Mark Manson Mark Manson's book is for the experienced PUA who has gone through routines and canned lines but couldn't make them work for him. He reprograms your mind about men, women and attraction; then goes on to explain his way of honestly and directly approaching women. I suggest you use this for day game. His modest way suggests that you can attract only a very small percentage of women you meet , and that's okay (Which is, not). *I don't suggest this book if you are just starting out. It has become a feelgood-nice guy self help bible that teaches barely anything, other than the pick-up line "Hey, I thought you were cute and I just had to come and tlak to you". Women have told me they have been told the same line by 4 different guys in a day at times. Guys who were looking down, shoulders sulked, with no skills or practice at all. It also does not work on justifier girls who feel extremely uncomfortable with compliments, and any girl who is not already into you a great deal. Such direct approaches and compliments are not attractive and will not cause the effects desired unless you are already far ahead in your game and have great value and high status that can be noticed at a glance. There are hundreds of things you have to take care of about yourself before trying to tell girls how beautiful you think they are. It won't work. You will feel demotivated and quit. *
Attraction Code - Vin DiCarlo Vin DiCarlo is the author of "The Pandora's Box" ; the system that lets you categorize women into 8 easily recognized and dealt with types, and identify your type, and target your demographic only. Attraction Code is his honest and direct way of attracting women. This deals with day game more so than bar game. There are VITAL CONCEPTS in this book that you have to learn about yourself as a male, and women and how their minds work. It also teaches you how to deal with other guys (Hint: Not by fighting or arguing)
Mystery Method - Mystery Mystery is one of the creators of the commercial PUA training. His "Method" is an analytical way, an algorithm with clearly defined steps that provides canned lines, routines, stories and lines which help you meet and attract groups of women at bars and nightclubs. He had a reality show where actors who weren't what they claimed to be pretended to be hopeless nice guys. His method is solid, but many women in USA and the UK might have seen the show or heard the lines.
Magic Bullets - Nick Savoy Nick used to manage the company they started with Mystery, and his method is an advanced and updated version of the Mystery Method. His book is very big and useful; as in it will reprogram your way of thinking for a few chapters. Very useful information and insight there. Like all of these books, it is more of a reference book than a novel. You will have to come back to it later multiple times. The first few chapters will change the belief systems of many nice guys out there, and women as well. Mostly for bars, it is pretty scientific.
How to Meet and Connect with Women - Wayne Elise Down to earth natural game. Not very scientific like the previous two books.
The Game - Styles aka Neil Strauss The bald wallflower who started the PUA style himself. Close friends with Mystery. His book "The Rules of the Game" and his Style Life Challenge system teach things in more detail. Famous user of the esoteric arts and cold reading in attraction. He is bald, not very good looking, and has slept with countless beautiful women that you can't even imagine talking to. This is not a guide or something you can learn from. This is a novel that tells you what is possible, in a fun way.
Additional Resources
Steve Celeste (Toecutter) - Palmistry A way of using palm reading for seduction. It has a "routine" palm reading - cold reading paragraph that you can use on any one woman out of a social group.
The Cube A relational psychology game that lets you cold read women you have just met in a fun way.
Style Life Academy - Cold Reading Handbook VERY USEFUL little guide for different types of cold reading including the finger game, heart game, tarot et cetera..
Audio and Video Series
David DeAngelo Audio Series There are about 10 series, each of which consisting of a few DVDs or 5-6 CDs. If you are into Cocky Comedy, the fun way of attracting women; you should get hold of all these series and listen to them on your headphones when you go out. I have found "Cocky Comedy" , "Meeting Women in Bars and Clubs", "Meeting Women Online", "Approaching Women", and "Interview Series" to be EXTREMELY HELPFUL. Once you have read your first book and got out in order to approach women and practice your game, you should listen to these seminars on your mp3 player. They are pretty funny, you will laugh, gain confidence, rise your inner state and have more social energy before talking to women. Do this. You don't even have to read, just listen.
Pandora's Box System by Vin DiCarlo This system includes video interviews, audio interviews , pdf course files and quizzes. It's pretty advanced and it won't help you unless you have been approaching and picking up women for a few months or years. This answers your questions about specific girls. "There is this girl I have a crush on, how do I make things work with her?" This system has the answer.
Read, reprogram your mind, and when you feel your views have changed; go out and approach women. I don't mean "go and take her home for hot steamy sex", just asking the time, asking directions, and trying to keep eye contact without looking down will do for the first few days. Then you can start commenting on something about her, and smiling. You don't go 0-100 in a day. Fuel up, go slow, just improve your social skills and the ability to have small talk with anyone. Fake confidence until you make it. With approaches and pick ups, confidence will come. You will be afraid out of your mind; but here is the thing: first you approach a woman, AND THEN the fear of approach goes away. Not the other way around.
(Part 2)
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2015.12.08 18:20 dennis_7 How the Seduction Community has Changed?

Hi everyone!
I have just broken up with a long-term girlfriend and have found myself checking in to the seduction community for the first time in around 4 or 5 years!
For any other veterans out there, I wanted to get your opinion on how it has changed? What are the new "must reads" out there?
When I first joined around 10 years ago now, it was all Mystery, David DeAngelo, and RSD. That material originally got me out of my shell and forced me to push myself, but in the end it started to hurt me -- I got way too much into my head, thinking about routines, and being a completely unnatural robot.
I had to detox from PUA (as it was back then -- that word doesn't seem to be used as much now) for a LONG time.
The book that helped me escape the problems of PUA and become an all-round better guy all those years ago? Mark Manson, Models.
I'm really pleased to see it has gained some traction these days and is recommended so frequently. Back in the day it didn't quite get the credit it deserved, and I think it will serve newer guys well. I always considered it the "must read" book.
Are there any other books like that these days to complement Models?
TLDR; What new books on seduction are there? What would you recommend to someone out of the game for several years?
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2015.07.28 02:55 sharpiescribe Personal Introduction: Forging the Journey and Persevering Day by Day

Hello Reddit Community,
I am a 24 year old black male college student and I am a virgin. I have been studying game for 3 years. I grew up in a conservative household and went to a pre-dominantly white high school and college. I was never attracted to Black women until I came to college. On the outside, people would say on that I am smart, successful, educated, intelligent and have a great professional future in front of me in science. On the inside, I feel miserable and dissatisfied with my lack of social experiences.
The Conservative Beginning Being a track, football athlete, with a laidback go-easy personality, humor, and fit body frame, I thought women would naturally be attracted to me. In my military home, I was engrained at a young age that sex before marriage was bad, baby mamas are bad, drinking alcohol is bad, being the black stereotype shown on TV is bad. High school passed, no gfs, no lays, no prom dates, no numbers. 3 years into college, with those beliefs I met plenty of average girls in my science classes but none that really captured my attention in a sexual/attraction manner. One day an amazingly beautiful Malaysian girl, that I had met back in my first year, asked me to the University Graduation Ball and I was ecstatic. (I bought condoms!) However, my over-zealousness and naive nature at the time undermined the positives of our fun night at the Ball (It was a LJBF close). I got over-attached, oneitis, bought her all these gifts only to be met with un-returned phone calls and voice mails. I was frustrated and angered with myself. I realized that my conservative views of life, relationships, and dating had really blinded me to the realities of the social world and had ultimately hurt myself and my progression as a real man.
Enlightenment That summer, I discovered David DeAngelo, Richard La Ruina, Tyler Durgen, Neil Strauss, Mystery, "The Game". I started doing meditation, studying theory and going to night clubs in Jersey. I joined a black fraternity, and immediately my social life changed. Black women, sorority girls I would have never met within my circle of science nerds were attracted to me and texting me. Using all the David Deangelo "Cocky Funny", Sarcasm, High Value humor, Kino, I started getting lots of interests from Black women on multiple campuses. I had my first kiss at age 21! I ended up sleeping with a Track Athlete, Sorority President, and the Organizer of a Service Club! (The extent of all these were kissing, making-out, remove her clothes, eat pussy, and then she'd say she didn't want to go all the way) Those unfinished experiences really left a hunger and resentment inside me. I got irritated, I got frustrated, and I ended up trying to control these girls when in reality I was insecure and depressed about my own incompetence, poor social skills, and inferiority against the other men these women were texting and actually fucking. I became envious and deeply jealous of my brothers, with their screenshots, sex videos, cool-guy oversized ego attitude, and the fact that all the girls knew these guys were fucking their sorority sister, close friend, whoever... yet women always treated them as the cool, normal guy never questioning their behavior (pre-selection...). I was young, social unaware, and I lost out on so many easy lays and girls that would have been with me. It bothers viciously and carnally, even to this day, that I ultimately failed and never had sex in what was probably the easiest time to do it in my life.
Real World Having progressed out of undergrad into graduate school, I now face new challenges. Fraternity was a route to my social life but now I have to actually be someone who is attractive, has the lifestyle, social circles, confidence, inner game, and the balls to act on their emotions. Being in a small black population at a pre-dominantly white college, I am cautious to really game girls hard and potentially damage my social and professional reputation. I mainly focus on just building genuine friendships and actually treating women like normal people. I typically make weekend road trips to Baltimore and Philadelphia but traveling by myself, hours on the road, travel money, club covers, and fees are something I can't see myself doing long-term at least for the next 2 years of my studies.
Self-Diagnosis I have approach anxiety, I feel awkward opening a girl I have never met, a stranger, whatever in a club setting. Trying to approach a girl for "twerk" is stressful and makes me so anxious. I hate being in the black club and waving my hands like a rapper just to fit into the crowd. (I do legitimately love the music and typically enjoy it when I'm with friends, but I travel by myself since I do drive backs from the city at 3am and 4am so I am usually alone). I ultimately, do the Black club because I know that the girls I am attracted to, would be in those environments. I feel jealous about other people's success (mainly due to frustration with my own scarcity). I feel insecure knowing that a girl I liked/admired got fucked by a man I completely despise. (Control issues...Comparing myself...Inferiority Complex). I almost feel as though I cannot talk to/or trust men with my own emotions, weaknesses, and inabilities to fuck the women I want. This has negatively impacted me by becoming a recluse at times. I see everything my fraternity brothers are discussing about women, sex, being awesome but I feel so terrible being vulnerable and essentially seen as the wuss of the group so I never say how I'm feeling. Conversely, this has lead to me overly confiding in women and trusting them too much, often leading to women no longer being sexually interested in me. I don't want ratchet, easy, give-it-away lays. I really want the ambitious, attractive, confident, sexy, intelligent professional women that knows how to have fun and get loose from time to time.
What Are You Doing About It? Years ago, I hired a local dating coach experienced in PUA, he was practically a club promoter for Philadelphia. He helped me understand the importance of attractive lifestyle, naturally being a cool dude, and actually buying people drinks for the sake of just having fun with no expectations. Though I don't work with him anymore, due to him moving away, I remember the lessons and experiences we had.
I do Salsa dancing. I teach group classes at my university, (typically don't game anyone to protect social image and my reputation within small group). I have been dancing for 2 years doing lessons at Baltimore. I always get compliments on the dance floor so its has helped my self-esteem with receiving a positive source of admiration, validation, and acknowledgement for what I can do. People are friendly, easy-going, and extremely easy to talk with.
I do Meditation. I started with "Inner Game Installed" years ago but recently got involved with Kelly Howell. I listen to her Universal Mind Meditation every night. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6tF14GnCJqk Very relaxing and helps clear up anxiety and issues I may have in the day.
I listen to personally recorded affirmations with "I am..." and "You are.." statements for my self-esteem, confidence, people skills, attraction, and masculinity. I listen to podcasts particularly Angel Donovan https://www.datingskillsreview.com/ for social, dating, game, expert perspective along with Tim Ferriss http://fourhourworkweek.com/podcast/ for topics on mastery, world class performance, and really living an over-all well rounded life. I have a vision board with pictures of women (professional headshots) that desire and hope to be with in the future.
I Road Trip to Baltimore and Philly for young professional events. So I typically roll out there and introduce myself to business men, entrepreneurs, and women. It provides me with a great opportunity to also reach out to old college buddies and reconnect while I'm in town. Ultimately, these events help me build the social, talking, conversational skills so I can attract a women in the first place. My clothing and style is well-received and I get lots of compliments from guys and girls being called "GQ" and "High Fashion Man".
I maintain a healthy lifestyle. I cook my own meals. (Meat, Veggies, Startches). I workout. I am active in campus social groups and part of a flag football team. I keep a moderately updated social media with travel photos and friends.
What do you want out of this reddit? 1. Honest Feedback 2. Support Network 3. Guidance 4. Place to be myself and be vulnerable 5. Share my experiences and journey
What do you bring to the table? Being a black scientific, physically fit, graduate student. I am detailed, articulate, and I feel as though I can provide unique comments on the pick-up /seduction experience from the perspective of the "black nerd". In addition, I can provide clarity on the challenges of leaving college campuses, entering the city, and trying to game professional women.
Closing I plan to post ideas, field reports, and philosophical rants from time to time. I hope to stay connected with you guys as I keep forward with my journey. I appreciate all your support. Thanks
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2015.03.15 20:00 docs20 Ask out and possible shit test

A girl wrote me on fb because she saw a post of mine in a group of "university books market" in which I wrote that I was searching for a book. She thought I was selling it and wanted me to buy it (she said that she misread my message); then we started talking about textbooks, their prices, about university, exames, and about a person that we both know. A day and a half later (today) I told her a joke about something she wrote on the group and she laughed. Then I told her if she wanted to get to know each other face-to-face and not on fb in front of a coffee the day after tomorrow. She replied almost 2 hours later (she would always answer immediatly), I quote, "Look... Actually I am seeing somebody in this period and I don't want to create misunderstandigs to him... But thanks for the invitation..."
I haven't replied to her. A friend of mine (who has quite a success with woman) told me that A girl wrote me on fb because she saw a post of mine in a group of "university books market" in which I wrote that I was searching for a book. She thought I was selling it and wanted me to buy it (she said that she misread my message); then we started talking about textbooks, their prices, about university, exames, and about a person that we both know. A day and a half later (today) I told her a joke about something she wrote on the group and she laughed. Then I told her if she wanted to get to know each other face-to-face and not on fb in front of a coffe the day after tomorrow. She replied almost 2 hours later (she would always answer immediatly), I quote, "Look... Actually I am seeing somebody in this period and I don't want to create misunderstandigs to him... But thanks for the invitation..." I haven't replyed to her. A friend of mine (who usually has quite a success with women) told me that since we have spoken only on fb she could be quite interested but not enough to accept immediatly my invitation. He also told me that I should have insisted or maybe that should try again these days (this happend 5 days ago) saying something like "Hey, are you still seeing this guy? :) In any case we should go out for a coffee, it’s going to be nice to get to know you better, if nothing else, we can just be friends.” This last sentence is suggested by the PUA David De Angelo.
So what do you think? Should I write her again? Or should I simply give up, because she doesn't want to go out in any case?
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